I'll meet you there

When psychology stops pathologizing and begins studying the uncommon

 

When science transcends materialism

 

When philosophy returns to practical guidance

Wandering&Wondering

There seems to be a widespread, mostly unspoken expectation that the world is supposed to calm our fears. That reality, people, systems, certainty, or answers should make us feel psychologically secure.

The River Between Us

The collective consensus (even if not admitted, not realized) is that the past has nothing to do with our present, that we can separate the two and “simply live here, now.”
At the same time, we also pick specific times of the past and certain incidents that we think not only affect the present, but are the cause of it.

Contact before Arrival

Insight and intuition have similarities. The word isn’t important.

 

- It doesn’t come in words.

- It’s soft, almost undetectable if you’re not paying attention, if you’re not grounded in your body.

In the name of love

What’s broken in this world, and always surprised me in real-time contact, is continuity. There seems to be none. Real continuity. Inner coherence, relational truth, integrity. 

In its place, what appears as continuity is collective agreements, role stability, possessions. People seem to make impulsive decisions that only appear rational by agreement, that ensure power, not love. The continuity they need to protect is continuity for power.

Only temporary

«Ποια είσαι;» (“Who are you?”), when I walked by with the dogs and greeted her. The question came from interest. It’s not difficult to read someone’s energy field. Yet, this question has been puzzling me for months. Every time someone asks. Today I inquired.

Performance

I never liked that word, now floating in every pop-psychology and self-help conversation as truth. Life isn’t a stage. Not a play.

When you’re being polite when you’d rather be dismissive, or when you say yes when you’d rather say no, that’s you. Not some character apart from you that took over. When you shut down and don’t know why, when you really want to connect, to meet—it’s not performing. It’s you.

The heart of this world

This life, this reality, is mostly a hall of mirrors. A matrix of reflections.

We learn through each other. We come to know our self through interaction, through relationship. Whatever we see comes through a mirror—inverted, distorted, sometimes like a photographic negative. But still… revealing.

Restoring unconsciousness

Unconscious doesn’t mean what is usually implied.
It doesn’t mean that you’re inferior, immoral, damaged, or irrational.

Babel

In the story of Tower of Babel, the confusion isn’t that people suddenly speak different words—it’s that the same words no longer point to the same thing.

“Babel” isn’t just many languages. It’s the loss of shared reference to reality.

The Threshold

It is assumed that we all separate concepts, that we’re all split inside—like our civilized world is split into opposites, into areas, into subjects, each filed separately in compartments. But assuming that the common is the baseline, or natural, or true, prevents us from seeing what is real.

Immoralized

It's in their words – when they're not watching. "I have to", "I have obligations", "it's my duty". They've convinced themselves that it's what they want. And they do. They're not wrong.

As if living by obligation is some kind of higher order that only mature and responsible people are capable of.

The Calling

You can’t make a group-consciousness person think like an individual. It’s not even a choice that exists for them. They don’t have a mind of their own, a conscience of their own. They think they do, they believe they do. But it’s never really challenged, tested.

Invisible by nature

The few suffer because of the many.

99% of people comply, settle, bend
a rare 1% don’t.

Life is the masterclass

When we make a big decision, we’re opening a door into the unknown. It’s like a skydive freefall. Simple and complex all at the same time. All you have to do is jump – but that opens a whole new world of adventure. Sometimes it’s falling, sometimes it’s flying.

Growth?

Where it gets interesting, though—after the last post—is the question of change. If you're already whole, what is learning? What is growth? Not toward wholeness, obviously—but what is it? Because you clearly move, deepen, shift…

Flip your self

If the purpose is individuation, then how can teachings exist that can take you—an individual—there? What guidelines can exist to show someone what wholeness looks like for them? How can anything take you to be you?

If there are no two identical drops of water, no two identical sunsets, why should there be two identical human beings?

The Closest, Most Intimate Voice

There’s no one else “deciding your fate” when you know what intuition is, when you’ve trusted it completely. Your deepest, clearest, truest “guiding system”.

It’s not an authoritative “voice”…and it’s not instinct. Duality breaks here. However you try to explain it, define it, is not it.

Already Decided

When “something happens,” it’s already decided. It has already been created.
Like the physical symptoms of the body, which are effects, not causes—consequences, not beginnings.
Or like an idea that grows in the mind and then just needs time, tools, and energy to become a physical object, a project.

The Questions That Remain

...It's like one of those questions where a master - or life - sends you back, again and again, until you find the one correct answer.