Seeing the Unseen

In this world, in this frequency, if you don’t stop and acknowledge something—even just to yourself, or even better, write it down—it stays in the shadows. Unclaimed. Unowned. Invisible to you. Not non-existent. Not gone. Just unseen.

Why Write

Why write dialogues?

Oral conversations move fast. We react in real time. Most people respond quickly, maintain image unconsciously, avoid silence, defend, bypass, adjust.
There’s no stable surface to return to.

How we meet

 

“Dialogues” seem like a new endeavor, something that just popped up as a thing. They aren’t. They’ve always been what I wanted, what I attempted my whole life.

How do you know the how of anything if you’ve never been shown, or if it doesn’t exist around you? 

Why?

“What’s happening” is always personal. Always.

How can we discuss facts, taking the personal away?

It’s never the facts that matter, but how we personally interact with them. Why do people think that personal interpretations aren’t practical?
Or that there is one right interpretation and all others are wrong?

Field-physics of Contact

Looking at relationships…

Seeing is impossible where blame is. It’s self-contracting.

The more time taken (in blame), the more space is created. There comes a point when the bridge (to another) cannot be crossed anymore because the mind has created an abyss.

Honesty doesn’t survive in courtrooms. But it’s required for contact.

Relational Fields

Relationships are fields we cultivate together, whether we know that or not. They don’t exist independent of us.

Are there general rules by which we can judge and measure relationships? When? When they begin? When they end? When they’re struggling? When they’re easy-going?

Writing and Reading as Contact

Nearly everything I write in my personal, daily notes can become a post.